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Month of July

I simply cannot tell you how much I love this

My water baby

Not sure how he feels about the sand (once he got used to it, he dug right in!)

4th Of July 

This makes my heart happy :) 

Eating puffs while watching Mommy cook 

Adore 

"I cleaning!" Jordan helping me clean the windows 

Happy 60th Birthday Dad! 

Playing a game with my boy

Love!

Jordan was so excited to go swimming again after being in the house for a week with Hand Foot & Mouth Disease 

Crawling!

Brotherly love ... or wrestling

Loving the spaghetti! 

And this is why Lucas is not napping (see that mischievous glint in his eyes?)

4th Of July

We had a wonderful time celebrating the 4th of July.  Swimming, badminton, bbq, fireworks.  My mom thought ahead of time to provide ear mufflers for Jordan, my energetic active boy who is actually quite sensitive to loud noises.  We put them on over his hooded sweatshirt & those enabled him to really enjoy the fireworks without being bothered by the noise. Even little Lucas joined in on the fun! My mellow easygoing boy showed no fear of noises, crowd reactions, or fireworks.  He actually laughed & clapped a few times! It was more fun to watch my children's reactions to the fireworks than to watch the fireworks myself.

May

May was a busy month for the Thompson family.  The biggest news is that the littlest Thompson turned six months old on the 18th! One day I turned around & Lucas was no longer a tiny newborn snuggled in my arms, but instead was a infant sitting on his own, happily playing with his brother's toys.  Such mixed feelings ... he's growing too fast but I am delighting in watching him grow & seeing his personality emerge!

At six months Lucas is:
 * sitting on his own without assistance
 * transferring objects between hands, reaches for toys just out of reach
 * rolls from back to tummy & occasionally tummy to back
 * prefers to sleep on his stomach with his bottom in the air & face buried between his hands
 * plays peek a boo
 * squeals, laughs, gurgles, babbles
 * cries whenever Mommy leaves the room
 * is sleeping through the night (6:30 pm - 5:30 am, with an occasional 3:30 am wake up)
 * is able to eat solids, but so far is only interested in avocado
 * is scooting around in the crib when he's half asleep
 * sits in the big tub for his bath & loves splashing, especially when big brother joins in!
 * grabs anything in sight, especially Mommy's hair (ouch!)

The little one is our mild mannered boy.  Lucas loves to snuggle, being in the baby carrier, and is content to sit & play with his big brother's toys.  Legos are his favorite right now - give Lucas a box of legos and he will work on tipping the box over so the legos fall out.  It is fun to watch Lucas as he plays.  Rarely will he get frustrated when he is unable to do something.  He simply moves on to what he is able to do.  If reaching for a toy that is too far, you may hear Lucas grunt in frustration then in the next second see him recognize that another toy is closer & chose to play with that one instead.

Lucas loves to be around Jordan and puts up with quite a lot. It is hard to explain to Jordan what is not okay (rolling over on Lucas & other things) when Lucas is laughing! "He likes it Mommy! See, he's laughing" This is said daily as Jordan 'plays' with Lucas.  Thanks little one, you are not making this easy for your brother to learn what he is not supposed to do!

 Lucas laughs when Jordan:
  * sprays him in the face with the hose

  * rolls him across the room
  * pours water over his head in the bathtub (after a second of shock)
  * pretends to let Lucas fall so Jordan can catch him  "Whoa!! He fell! I caught him! Whoa!"
  * jumps on the bed so Lucas falls over
  * rams trains against his leg
  * the list could go on and on ...

With all that being said, I do love watching their relationship grow, even when there are times I have to step in to make sure Lucas is safe! It warms my heart to see them play together (parallel play) and the delight that Lucas has in his big brother.  It's my continual prayer that these two grow up to be best friends (amidst the usual sibling rivalry).

Another important event this month was having the boys dedicated at church! We prayed that we would find a church for our growing family, and God answered that prayer by leading us to COD.  What an answer to a prayer it is!  Our boys are growing up in this church and friends are being made. David & I have both been getting involved at church, which is wonderful. :)  I mentioned in an earlier post that David is on the worship team.  He has also attended the men's retreat & a few other things.  We are both involved in a great small group.  I volunteer in the nursery one Sunday a month, and I am so excited to say that I am on the leadership team for our Growing Up Mom group!

A quick update on Jordan: our big 3 year old is finishing up his first year of preschool.  He has learned so much & it has been so fun! Potty training is just about complete (HURRAY!!!) What a nightmare that was.  Ask me sometime how Jordan decided he wanted to do his business in the toilet ... that boy is really something else :)  Jordan continues to make us laugh & we delight in his imaginary play & the really random things he comes up with.  The other night during prayers he said he was thankful for a monkey (makes monkey sounds), a tiger (roars), then segues into singing "We are the dinosaurs, marching marching.  We are the dinosaurs, we made the earth flat, we made the earth flat.  We are the dinosaurs, marching marching, we are the dinosaurs. ROAR".  My silly boy :)

Peek A Boo!

Why My House Is Messy

Cleaning your house while your kids are still growing is like shoveling the walk before it stops snowing.  ~ Phyllis Diller, Phyllis Diller's Housekeeping Hints, 1966

While every mother knows that raising children, especially young ones, results in a messy & chaotic house with piles of laundry, dirty dishes & toys everywhere, no one wants to admit it.  No one wants to admit that their homes are not always immaculate.  We want to be super moms & be able to do it all. Props to you if you can, because if there is one thing I've learned, I cannot! I have given up on trying to be the perfect mom. I am going to stop being a tryer & work on trusting.

For the past three years, I have been trying to balance housekeeping & parenting.  I put so much stress & importance on having a clean house, that I was not spending quality time with Jordan.  Over & over again, I heard, it's not your house that matters, but the time you invest in your children.  As any mother can tell you, that struggle is hard.  After having Lucas, I started realizing even more just how much I was focused on a clean house.  My parents have Jordan one day a week & before Lucas, those were my hard core cleaning/laundry days.  I could focus on the house, and not worry about neglecting my sweet boy.  After Lucas, my parents still take Jordan one day a week, but I quickly found out I could not use those days as cleaning days because there was this adorable baby who just wanted his mommy & did not have to share attention with his older brother.  So those days became "loving on Lucas" days.  Cuddles, naps, tummy time (diaper changes, spit up), etc :)

It is no secret that in the past year, it was not the easiest of times being a parent to my very active loveable adventurous boy.  The terrible twos were in full swing.  After months of frustration, different discipline tactics, and numerous other ordeals, I am beyond thankful that my relationship with Jordan is thriving.  Once we got past the newborn days & Lucas was older, I found myself feeling the Lord saying "give up that control on the house.  Your sons need you to be their mother.  They do not care if the house is clean.  They care that you are there to be with them.  They care that you are loving on them, giving them hugs and kisses, telling them you love them, and spending time making silly faces, playing trains, playing peek a boo, laying outside on the grass reading a story".  I slowly began to trust instead of try.  To let go of my control about constantly trying to clean a house that is temporary & will very rarely actually be clean on a daily basis.

By nature, I am a messy person.  I drop my diaper bag & purse on the table, I put the mail on the kitchen counter, I have loads of laundry sitting on the couch waiting for me to fold them while I catch up on tv shows after the boys are in bed, clothes are thrown on the bed as I change my outfit for the sixth time.  Putting things away as soon as I am done with them is a work in progress as it is not natural for me to do so.  Do I desire to have a clean house? Am I more at peace when my house is clutter free? Absolutely.  Is it worth stressing over & berating myself when there's clutter & dishes in the sink? No.  I find myself happy in the midst of my chaos, because I am loving on my boys & making memories.  In time, I will find the balance, but I refuse to let my need for control overwhelm the need of my boys & their time with me.

I posted an article on the Facebook page for my Growing Up Mom's group (Your Children Want YOU!) & in response, one mom said this.  "The measure of our motherhood is not found in any of these, but in Christ our King who has charged us to teach our little ones to love Him. So hug them and kiss them and tell them how much they are loved; by you and by our awesome God!" - Karen O.  This is the core of motherhood.  Not a clean house, not flower shaped soap, or the crafts we make.

So, in the meantime, welcome to my home.  Welcome to a house where you will hear laughter, maybe step on a fire engine, see a pile of laundry that needs to be folded.  Welcome to a house that has a few pictures on the wall, but tons of smudges from dirty hands that have been outside playing in the dirt.  Welcome to a house where you will find me in sweats, with no make up on & hair in a ponytail, outside playing catch or reading on the couch with my boys.  Welcome to a house where you will hear Jordan singing at the top of his lungs.  Welcome to a house where you will not find a wreath I made or anything remotely crafty.  Welcome to a house that has Jordan's rinsed out underwear all over the bathroom sink because we are working on potty training.  Welcome to a house that has dirty dishes because I have been in the kitchen with Jordan as my little helper, cooking or baking. Welcome to a house that has wipes in every room, a play mat, a bouncer, a boppy, and a bumboo that are scattered here and there with no strategic placing.  Welcome to a house where there are books all over the place, because we sit down wherever we are & read.  Welcome to a house where a mom is working on trusting & not trying.  Welcome ... welcome to a house full of love & laughter.

Jordan turns 3!

Happy Birthday to my 3 year old boy!!

My dear Jordan, what a year it has been for you! So many changes have happened in the last year, but the biggest change was that you became a big brother.  What a joy it is to see you interact with Lucas - you love to make him smile & he smiles whenever he sees you, you comfort him when he is crying, and you enjoy getting down on the floor with him to work on tummy time or listen along to the singing sun on the playmat.  You, my boy, are a wonderful big brother!

Another change for you was starting preschool. You are loving it! You are social & love to be around other kids, and you are learning so much! Right now you love to hold up seven fingers & sing "seven days, seven days, seven days in a week".  You can count well & know your colors.  My favorite part about having you in preschool is seeing that big grin of yours & getting a great hug when I come to pick you up :) 

You are quite the independent little boy, my JoJo! So many times you say "I do it myself!" - you dress yourself, you try to make your own peanut butter & jelly sandwiches, you go into the fridge and pull out what you want to drink or eat, and you do almost anything you can by yourself :) I love how independent you are - it goes along with your strong spirit.  You are a leader and will not be pressured by other children to do something you do not want to do.  While this independence & strong spirit will carry you far in life, it does present a challenge when it comes to parenting! It certainly keeps me & your daddy on our toes, that's for sure. 

One of the times I cherish most is when you are helping me bake something in the kitchen.  As soon as you see me start getting ingredients out, you run to get your chair & drag it over to the counter so you can stand on it and be my little helper :) I learned my lesson quickly to not leave you alone with ingredients out on the counter - I went to check on Lucas one time, and came back to find you standing in the middle of the kitchen dumping pumpkin spice into your hand, which went through your fingers & all over the floor.  My handsome boy, life is never boring with you around!

Jordan, you are full of life & energy.  You love to make people laugh and then you laugh with them.  You love cars and trucks.  You love watching Go Diego Go!, Curious George and the Mickey Mouse Clubhouse. You love to eat cereal at any given time of the day.  You prefer to drink milk over water.  You love to wrestle with Daddy.  You love giving Lucas piggy back rides (with help).  You love to play with your buddy Zach. You love singing Jesus Loves Me.  You love to read books and will often ask us to read another story (especially at bedtime, when you are stalling!) You love playing at parks & climbing up the slides. 

My JoJo, your daddy & I love you so much! We are truly thankful that God has chosen us to be your parents.  I cannot wait to see how you continue to grow & learn this year.  Happy 3rd birthday my handsome boy!

 

Hanging with Jordan at Family Movie Night

After so many days of posting pictures of our daily happenings, I let things slide! Guess it's time to catch up with an actual blog post about how the boys are doing & what is going on with us.

  David & I started working out together (30 Day Shred) at the beginning of this month.  If Jordan is awake (we work out at 6 am - yowza), he tries to work out with us.  The other day I took a video of Jordan 'working out'.  He sure makes me laugh :)

Unfortunately, David & I have not been working out lately as both our boys came down with colds.  While Jordan got better, Lucas was diagnosed with bronchiolitis.  He is on an antibiotic and has to use a nebulizer every 4 to 6 hours.  Thankfully we caught it in time & he is getting better.

Other happenings in our family were my birthday (last year of my 20s'!) which I celebrated with family & had a wonderful time.  Jordan is 50% potty trained - we are still working on it.  David, in addition to working full time & doing private music lessons, also joined the worship team at church.  The first time he played, he had a solo & many people told him how much they enjoyed listening to the cello :) Lucas continues to be easy going, even when sick.  He's doing well at tummy time & starting to laugh, which is too cute :)

That's what's been happening in the Thompson household! I will do my best to upload pictures again & hopefully another blog post soon as Lucas is turning three months on Saturday & Jordan will be turning 3 in a couple weeks, so I am sure there will be things to write about!